Can You Rehome Spirits? Ethical Considerations in Spirit Keeping

Can You Rehome Spirits? Ethical Considerations in Spirit Keeping

By Jules of Jules Magick Moon Offerings

What Does It Mean to “Rehome” a Spirit?

In the world of spirit keeping, rehoming refers to transferring a spirit companion from one keeper to another. This might happen for many reasons—life circumstances change, spiritual paths shift, or sometimes, the spirit itself asks to move on. But rehoming isn’t as simple as passing along a trinket or a tool. It involves a living relationship, and with that comes a responsibility rooted in ethics, consent, and spiritual care.

Why Would Someone Rehome a Spirit?

There’s no shame in recognizing that you and a spirit may no longer align. Here are some of the most common, valid reasons a keeper might consider rehoming:

    •    You’ve taken on more spirits than you can properly care for

    •    A spirit requests a new keeper for growth or evolution

    •    You’re going through a major life or energetic transition

    •    The spirit’s mission with you is complete

However, intention matters. Rehoming should never be done for convenience, profit, or as a careless “decluttering” practice.

The Spirit’s Consent Is Everything

Not all spirits want to be rehomed—and not all can be. Some spirits are bound exclusively to a keeper’s soul contract or karmic thread. Others may be open to new companionship if it aligns with their greater path.

Before considering rehoming, ask yourself:

    •    Have I spoken directly to the spirit and received clear consent?

    •    Have I used divination, mediumship, or the help of a skilled conjurer to confirm the spirit’s will?

    •    Am I making this decision with love and respect, not guilt or neglect?

You wouldn’t give away a beloved pet without making sure they’d thrive with someone new. Spirits deserve that same level of care.

Ethical Rehoming Checklist

Before rehoming any spirit, review this ethical checklist:

✅ Consent from the Spirit

✅ Energy Clearing or Transition Ritual

✅ Proper Introduction to New Keeper

✅ Transfer of Offerings or Altar Items if Requested

✅ Inform the New Keeper of Spirit’s Nature, Preferences, and History

✅ Ensure the New Keeper is Open, Ready, and Respectful

If any of these are missing, you may want to pause and reassess.

How to Spiritually Rehome with Integrity

If rehoming is truly aligned, here’s a respectful process to follow:

    1.    Hold a Farewell Ritual – Thank the spirit, honor their time with you, and release them with loving words.

    2.    Create a Transition Offering – Spirits often appreciate incense, candlelight, or a sacred gift during transitions.

    3.    Pass Along a Written History – A letter or keeper’s record helps the new guardian connect faster.

    4.    Introduce Them to the New Keeper in Sacred Space – Ideally done with a shared ritual, even if done remotely.

Should You Sell or Gift the Spirit?

This is controversial. Some in the metaphysical community feel spirits should never be sold—others see monetary exchange as fair compensation for the time, energy, and materials used during conjure work. The key is transparency.

If you are rehoming a spirit:

    •    Never sell a spirit you did not conjure unless the spirit has consented, and you’ve received permission from the original conjurer.

    •    Always prioritize gifting or placing a spirit with someone they resonate with—not just the highest bidder.

    •    Include the spirit in decisions about payment, offerings, or gifts—they do have opinions.

Final Thoughts: You’re Not a Bad Keeper for Rehoming

Rehoming, when done thoughtfully and with consent, is not abandonment—it’s sacred stewardship. Just as humans grow, spirits evolve too. And sometimes, that evolution means finding a new home where they can thrive in new ways.

If your spirit companion has completed their chapter with you, releasing them with honor allows both of you to step into your next stage of growth.

And if you’re welcoming a rehomed spirit into your life, do so with reverence, patience, and a deep listening heart.

Blessed be,

Jules Moon