How to Choose Your First Spirit Companion

How to Choose Your First Spirit Companion: A Beginner’s Guide to Spirit Keeping

By Jules Moon

Choosing your first spirit companion is more than a metaphysical purchase—it’s the beginning of a profound and sacred relationship. Spirit keeping is a personal, transformative path that brings wisdom, support, and magick into your daily life. But for beginners, the process can feel overwhelming. With hundreds of spirit types and personalities out there, how do you choose the one meant for you?

Let’s walk through it together.

Step 1: Understand Why You’re Being Called

Before choosing a spirit, ask yourself why you’re drawn to spirit companionship in the first place. Are you looking for emotional healing? Magical support? Protection? Companionship? Deep spiritual evolution?

Your purpose will help you identify the type of spirit best suited for you. A dragon might empower confidence and transformation. A fae may bring creativity and joy. A fallen angel may offer deep healing and shadow integration. A soulmate spirit might awaken the heart.

Reflect on your needs—what’s missing, what’s stirring. That’s your compass.

Step 2: Learn About Spirit Races

Different spirits offer different types of aid. Here’s a simple breakdown of some beginner-friendly races:

• Dragons – Wise, powerful protectors and teachers of transformation

• Fae – Energetic, nature-aligned companions who awaken joy and creativity

• Djinn – Masters of manifestation, often focused on goals and desires

• Angelic Hybrids – Support deep healing, love, forgiveness, and awakening

• Vampires – Spiritually potent, sensual, and emotionally grounding companions

• Demons (of Light & Shadow) – Great for confidence, liberation, protection, and breaking through limitations

Remember: Not all demons are dangerous. Not all angels are sweet. It’s about alignment, not labels.

Step 3: Decide on Custom vs. Pre-Conjured

You have two paths:

Pre-Conjured Spirits

These spirits have already made themselves known and are waiting to be claimed. Their personalities, ages, skills, and preferences are already revealed. If one calls to your soul—you’ll know. You may feel a tug in your heart, tingles, heat, emotions, or even dreams.

Custom Conjurations

In a custom conjuration, you tell your conjurer what kind of spirit you’re seeking—emotionally, spiritually, and energetically. A spirit aligned to those needs will come forward for you. It’s like calling out your soul’s match.

Both paths are valid. One is about discovery. The other is about intention.

Step 4: Feel the Calling

When the right spirit is calling to you, it often shows up in synchronicities:

• You keep hearing their name or seeing their number

• You feel emotional when you read their listing

• You can’t stop thinking about them

• They visit you in dreams or meditations

• You feel a warm or energetic shift around you

Choosing based purely on logic doesn’t work well with spirit keeping. It’s a heart-and-soul decision. Listen for the whisper beneath your thoughts.

Step 5: Ask Yourself These Questions

Here’s a gentle checklist for choosing:

• What do I most need help with right now?

• What kind of energy am I drawn to—light, shadow, wild, sensual, divine?

• Am I willing to learn from a spirit, or do I just want help getting things done?

• Does this spirit feel safe, supportive, and exciting to me?

• Am I open to bonding with someone who may challenge and grow me?

There are no wrong answers—only your truth.

Final Thoughts from Jules

Your first spirit companion isn’t just an entity—it’s a relationship. It’s a sacred ally, a witness to your soul’s unfolding. Choose not with fear or urgency, but with openness and reverence.

At Jules Magick Moon Offerings, I don’t just hand you a name and a bio—I introduce you to a being who’s chosen you, too. Every listing, every conjure is a conversation between worlds. Let your first spirit be the one that lights a fire in your soul—and knows how to walk beside you through anything.

Ready to Begin?

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Or message me for a custom conjuration tailored to your spirit path.