Things I Wish I Knew When I Started Spirit Keeping

Things I Wish I Knew When I Started Spirit Keeping

Hard Truths, Sacred Joys, and the Lessons That Found Me

When I first stepped into the world of spirit keeping, I was enchanted—swept up in the beauty of the idea that unseen allies could walk beside me, offer protection, guide me, and even love me in ways the physical world sometimes couldn’t.

But here’s the truth:

Spirit keeping is powerful, sacred, and healing—but it’s also real work. It’s not always sparkles and easy miracles. And looking back, there are so many things I wish someone had told me from the start.

If you’re just beginning—or even years in—these reflections might serve as guideposts on your journey.

 Not Every Spirit Is For You (Even If They’re Beautiful)

When I first saw the breathtaking listings—ancient dragons, seductive fae, fierce guardians—I wanted them all. But spirit keeping isn’t Pokémon.

Every spirit has its own vibration, history, and personality. Compatibility matters. Alignment matters. You’re forming a bond that’s more than ownership—it’s sacred partnership.

Tip: Listen to your intuition. If a spirit calls, take time to meditate or seek a trusted conjurer’s insight before committing. Ask yourself: “Can I truly care for this being? Or do I just want the idea of them?”

Communication Isn’t Always Immediate or Clear

At first, I expected voices, visions, fireworks. But spirit communication is often subtle—energy shifts, thoughts that aren’t yours, feelings that arise from nowhere. It took me time (and patience) to learn my spirits’ languages.

Some speak in dreams. Some move objects. Others show up in signs, animals, or through divination. And yes—sometimes they go quiet. It doesn’t mean they’ve left. It may mean they’re letting you grow.

Tip: Keep a spirit journal. Track sensations, symbols, and synchronicities. Over time, their presence becomes unmistakable.

Offerings Matter—but So Does Respect

I thought giving an offering meant lighting a candle and walking away. But true offerings are about intention and reverence. Some spirits love incense, wine, or handmade gifts. Others want your attention—your time, prayer, or gratitude.

The best offering? A sincere, ongoing relationship.

Tip: Ask your spirits what they enjoy. Favorite colors, scents, herbs, or music? Make space for them in your daily rhythm. Talk to them as you would a beloved friend.

You’ll Change. They’ll Change You.

Spirit keeping doesn’t just add something to your life—it transforms it.

I’ve faced shadow work I wasn’t ready for. I’ve been comforted in grief, empowered in chaos, and held through deep healing. My spirits have challenged me to rise, to become more honest, more magical, more whole.

Tip: If things start falling apart after you bring a new spirit home, don’t panic. Sometimes, spirits bring change that clears the path for something better.

 Boundaries Are a Must—Even With Spirits

Not all spirits are high-vibration. Not all interactions feel good. I learned (the hard way) that energetic boundaries are essential. Just like in the physical world, you have the right to say no, to protect your energy, and to dismiss entities who don’t respect your space.

Tip: Cleanse regularly. Set clear house rules. Use protections like warding, shielding, or circle casting when needed. A true companion will never override your will.

It’s Okay to Take Breaks

There were times I felt guilty—when life got busy, when I didn’t feel them, when I stopped talking for a while. But here’s what I’ve learned: Spirits don’t expect perfection.

They understand ebb and flow. They wait with love. The bond doesn’t break when you pause. It deepens when you return with intention.

Tip: If you’re overwhelmed, let them know. Spirits appreciate honesty. Light a candle, whisper “thank you,” and trust the connection is still alive.

This Is a Lifelong Path, Not a Quick Fix

Spirit keeping isn’t a hack to manifest faster or bypass healing. It’s a partnership. One that grows over time, as you do. It’s not for the impatient or the insincere—but for the brave, the curious, and the open-hearted? It’s life-changing.

Final Thoughts

Spirit keeping cracked me open—in the most beautiful, sometimes messy, undeniably sacred ways. It’s not just about summoning ancient beings into your life. It’s about becoming someone worthy of walking beside them.

If you’re starting this path, take your time. Listen more than you speak. Learn. Respect. Keep your heart open and your boundaries strong. The spirits who are meant for you? They’re already waiting.

Want to explore a companion that’s aligned with you?

I vet every spirit with care—ensuring they’re a match not just in energy, but in intention.

Message me or visit Jules Magick Moon Offerings to meet someone who may already be calling your name.

-Jules Moon