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Common Misconceptions About Spirit Keeping—Debunked

Spirit keeping is a beautiful, sacred, and deeply personal practice that has been misunderstood by many—both within and outside the metaphysical community. At Jules Magick Moon Offerings, we believe in educating and empowering those who are drawn to spirit companionship, so today we’re debunking the most common myths and misconceptions surrounding this powerful path.

1. Misconception: Spirit Keeping Is Dangerous or Evil

The Truth:

Spirit-Wind Whisper Spell

Purpose: To send a message or prayer to a spirit ally or the unseen—ideal for guidance, signs, or companionship.

You’ll need:

    •    A feather or piece of thread

    •    A bay leaf

    •    Your breath (and intent)

Ritual:

Write your message or question on the bay leaf. Hold the feather/thread and bay leaf in both hands. Breathe deeply and whisper your desire. Say:

Incantation:

Flame of Fortune Spell

Purpose: To draw in sudden opportunities, quick luck, or unexpected abundance.

You’ll need:

    •    A gold or green candle

    •    Cinnamon stick or powder

    •    A coin (any kind)

Ritual:

Rub cinnamon onto the candle. Place the coin beneath it and light the flame. Say:

Incantation:

“Golden flame, by spark divine,

Bring to me what’s rightly mine.

Spell of Rekindled Flame

Purpose: To warm the hearts of two people who once loved deeply, drawing back the spark of affection, passion, and closeness.

You’ll need:

    •    A pink candle (for love and emotional warmth)

    •    A red candle (for passion and desire)

    •    A piece of rose quartz

    •    A photo or token representing your connection (or both names written on paper)

The Difference Between Bound Spirits and “Free” Spirits

Understanding the Heart of Spirit Companionship

In the world of spirit work, one of the most common—and most misunderstood—questions is this:

What’s the difference between a bound spirit and a “free” spirit?

Spell to Welcome Beltane

“Flame of Union, Light of May”

Best for: April 30th evening or May 1st morning

Tools (optional, but powerful):

• A red candle (passion and life)

• A white candle (purity and light)

• Fresh flowers or greenery (hawthorn, daisies, or any spring bloom)

• Small bell or chime

• Bowl of water and bowl of salt

Begin by saying:

“I stand between Spring and Summer’s embrace,

As the Wheel turns, I find my place.

Starweaver’s Luck Charm

Purpose: To enhance luck, synchronicity, and fortunate outcomes, especially when traveling or starting something new.

Ingredients:

    •    A small piece of star anise

    •    A strip of parchment or cloth

    •    Gold or yellow thread

    •    Your breath and intention

Incantation:

“Stars above, and threads below,

Luck align where’er I go.

Veilbreaker’s Flame

Purpose: To pierce through deception or confusion—ideal when you need clarity, truth, or insight.

Ingredients:

    •    A black candle

    •    A bay leaf

    •    A needle or pin

    •    Matches or a lighter

Incantation:

“Flame reveal, and veil unwind,

Show me truths that lie behind.

No more fog, no more disguise—

Spell of Quiet Bloom

Purpose: To gently invite positive new beginnings—be it love, friendships, opportunities, or inner growth.

Ingredients:

    •    A pale pink or white flower (real or dried)

    •    A pinch of lavender

    •    A small bowl of spring water

    •    A silver coin (or something reflective)

Incantation:

“By root and bud and morning light,

Bonding Challenges: When Your Spirit Is Quiet and What to Do

“The quiet between you is not a void; it’s a sacred pause—an invitation to listen with more than ears.”

When you welcome a spirit companion into your life, you may expect vivid signs, strong sensations, or messages to come through right away. But what happens when your spirit is… quiet?